Struggling to Help Our Soldiers? 10 Simple Ways to Support Our Troops Today
- Friends Allies
- Jun 30
- 4 min read
Hey there! I'm Penny, and I'm so glad you’re here. We all feel that tug at our heartstrings when we think about the men and women who serve our country. We want to do something, right? But sometimes, it feels like the problems they face, and the challenges their families deal with, are just too big for one person to handle.
I’ve got some great news for you. You don’t need a massive budget or a political platform to make a real difference. Whether it’s helping a veteran manage the heavy weight of PTSD or ensuring we feed the children in your community whose parents are deployed, your small actions add up to a huge wave of support.
At Friends & Allies Inc., we believe in standing beside the vulnerable. Today, let’s talk about how you can stand beside our heroes and their families with these 10 simple, actionable steps.
1. Say a Sincere “Thank You”
It sounds almost too simple, doesn't it? But never underestimate the power of a genuine acknowledgment. When you see someone in uniform or wearing a veteran cap, stop for a second. Look them in the eye and say, "Thank you for your service."
It isn’t just about the words. It’s about letting them know they are seen and appreciated. This small gesture can be a bright spot in a day that might otherwise feel isolating. Support our troops by making gratitude a part of your daily routine.
2. Send Care Packages with a Personal Touch
Deployed soldiers miss the little things from home. Think about the stuff we take for granted: good socks, jerky, high-quality toiletries, or even a brand of coffee they love.
You can assemble these yourself or work with amazing organizations like Soldiers’ Angels or Operation Gratitude. Including a handwritten note is the "secret sauce" here. Tell them what’s happening in the world, share a joke, or just let them know you’re thinking of them.
3. Offer Support for Veterans with PTSD
When our soldiers come home, the battle doesn't always end. Many live with the "invisible wounds" of war, specifically PTSD. It can make transitioning back to civilian life feel like walking through a minefield.
You don't have to be a doctor to help. Be a friend who listens without judging. Encourage them to seek professional help gently. Remind them they aren't weak for struggling; they are incredibly brave for facing it. For a deeper dive, check out our ultimate guide to supporting troops and understanding PTSD.

4. Feed the Children in Your Community
Support doesn't stop with the soldier; it extends to the family they love. Often, military families or those transitioning back to civilian life face financial hurdles that lead to food insecurity.
Help for hungry children is one of the most direct ways you can support a veteran family. Look into local food insecurity programs for kids, such as backpack programs that send food home for the weekend. No child should have to worry about their next meal while their parent is serving our country or recovering from the stresses of service.
5. Volunteer for Local "Help Our Soldiers" Initiatives
Your time is your most valuable asset. Many local nonprofits run programs specifically designed to help our soldiers with everyday tasks.
Can you drive a veteran to a medical appointment? Can you help a military spouse with yard work or groceries while their partner is away? These "small" chores are actually massive burdens lifted off the shoulders of those who have already given so much.

6. Ease the Transition to Civilian Life
Leaving the military is a massive identity shift. Imagine going from a highly structured environment with a clear mission to... searching for a desk job. It’s jarring!
Help a veteran by reviewing their resume or offering to do a mock interview. If you’re a business owner, look for ways to hire veterans. Their leadership skills and discipline are unmatched! You can also point them toward mentoring programs that help bridge the gap between military service and civilian careers.
7. Support Backpack Programs for Kids
Since we’re talking about community support, let’s talk about the school system. Many schools partner with food banks to provide "backpack meals." These are discreet bags of food placed in a child's locker or backpack on Fridays.
This ensures that help for hungry children reaches them exactly when they need it most, over the weekend when school meals aren't available. You can donate kid-friendly, shelf-stable items like fruit cups, granola bars, and mac-and-cheese to these programs. It’s a simple way to feed the children in your community.

8. Spread the Word About Summer Meal Programs
Hunger doesn't take a summer vacation. When school is out, many kids lose access to the breakfast and lunch programs they rely on.
Help by sharing information about local summer meal sites on your social media. Many families don't know these resources exist! By spreading the word, you’re actively fighting food insecurity programs for kids by ensuring the "insecurity" part is replaced with "access."
9. Provide Practical Help for Military Families
When a soldier is deployed, the parent at home is doing the job of two people. They are exhausted!
Reach out to a military family you know. Don’t just say, “Let me know if you need anything.” Instead, say, “I’m going to the grocery store, what can I pick up for you?” or “I’d love to take the kids to the park for two hours on Saturday so you can have some quiet time.” Specific offers are much easier for people to accept.
10. Donate to Reputable Organizations
If you’re short on time but want to make an impact right now, donating is the way to go. Your financial support allows organizations to buy in bulk, provide specialized PTSD counseling, and fund large-scale feeding initiatives.
Every dollar you give to support our troops and their families is an investment in the health and safety of our entire community.

We’re In This Together
Supporting our troops and the children in our community isn't a solo mission. It’s a team effort. When we look out for the veteran struggling with PTSD or the child facing a hungry weekend, we are building a stronger, more compassionate world.
Take one small step today. Write that letter. Buy that extra box of granola bars. Reach out to a neighbor. You have the power to change a life, and I promise you, it feels incredible to be the help someone was praying for.
Ready to get started? Join us at Friends & Allies Inc. and let’s make a difference together!










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